To succeed in resolving conflict, it is necessary for all persons involved to feel that they have been heard and that their views were considered. If you argue your position repeatedly, the other person will feel that you aren’t listening and that you don’t understand their perspective.
It’s also important to consider how personal experiences, professional training and power differentials shape our views and behaviors. Eliciting everyone’s perspective helps level the playing field and demonstrates mutual respect. In this process, you will often discover something new that helps explain the other person’s actions and may even change your own thinking.
Go to the next slide to see how these questions can be adapted to gain a better understanding of your colleagues’ stories when you are dealing with interprofessional conflict.